Had a cute  date with Cas today. We had a picnic and ate a homemade apple pie that she made for me and read poetry and read feminist lesbian short stories.

We went back to her place and had INCREDIBLE SEX. It was even better than the night i first met her.   

This girl is gifted and definetly a keeper.

So. last tuesday night i was on King street of all places seedy street in melbourne that has plenty of strip clubs and “gentlemans clubs”

Anyhows so this guy ( who had been hanging around a strip club) came up to us and told my friend Emma ” Cover yourself up”

My feminist anger erupted. I stood right in his face and said “I can’t tell if you are serious or joking… You have to be fucking kidding me. We dont judge you on what you wear, or tell you what to wear, so what gives you the right to do so to a stranger.

Douchebag- “I have a daughter ..blah b;ah blah  more bullshit

me-    Well it matters even more so that you dont impose your misogynistic and sexist ideals on women and that you show respect.

So this argument went on for a while, and i ended up just walking away as he started verbally abusing us all and told my friend “you look like a hairy arsehole” and then made obscene gestures and shouted at me  ”I wouldn’t touch you with a ten foot pole” to which i responded . “THATS NO PROBLEM FOR ME….. I;M A LESBIAN.

It was an incredible experience for me, because often in these situations i cant think of the right response or dont stand up for myself or for others. But i did, and it made me feel so energised and alive to thrash him with wit, sarcasm and things that feminists on tumblr and in life have taught me

Had a really cute dnm with my grandmother, who was telling me about her migrant experience and how her husband ( that she was set up with by family) was such a feminist.    It made me so proud, i wish i could have met him.

The belief that even young girls will want to “express themselves” through perfecting their appearance means that even girls as young as eight or nine are being expected to devote energy to dieting, grooming, and shopping. The idea that girls should embark on these behaviours at an early age has become more and more prelavent. Historian Joan Jacob Brumberg has looked at the diaries of young girls to see how the idea of self-improvement has changed over the years. She found that, “Before World War 1, girls rarely mentioned their bodies in terms of strategies for self improvement or struggles for personal identity. Becoming a better person meant paying less attention to the self, giving more assistance to others, and putting more effort into instructive reading or lessons at school”. This meant that when girls in the nineteenth century thought about ways to improve themselves, they would focus on their internal chracter and how it reflected their outward behaviour.

It is not only in diaries where we see this shift. Throughout our culture it is constantly suggested women’s journey to self-fulfilment will inevitably arise in perfecting their bodies.

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Fuck being a woman and having to endure attracting lesbian vampire( yeah if only it was that hot) every month even though i am a lesbian and never want any kids. I am actually ready to rip out my uterus and other reproductive organs and throw them in the trash. 

On the bright side, ive gain 5 followers and lost none. yay. 

Seriously, what is the fuckery. Why do lesbians get periods. They should be exempt, like get a note from God ( or Goddess) that means i can get out of having to deal with this shit. Getting my period is never a relief for lesbians, unlike straight girls who freak out when they dont get it. 

What do you guys think (esp the fellow lesbians)?